Sunday, December 5, 2010

The Changes a Kit Can Make

We had a very large goal to obtain and thanks to you, we reached it! Recent distributions in Kenya were phenomenal. We passed out hundreds of kits. One set was during a near monsoon. As usual, when they heard what we were there to distribute the cheers were deafening, far beyond the pelleting rain on the metal roof. Later we saw them welcomed gratefully to several health clinics.

Perhaps the most powerful demonstration of gratitude I have ever “heard” was at a deaf school.The girls there watched the signing translator introduce each of the team and at each introduction they signed “hello” and then raised their hands with waving fingers, a sign we were told represented a cheer. But when they were told that we brought washable feminine hygiene, their eyes widened and eyebrows raised as if in orchestrated union. Then their arms shot as high as they could wave them and their fingers waved with such enthusiasm, but there was no sound except groans of excitement. It was the most powerful evidence of the joy these kits bring that I have ever witnessed. And YOU helped make it possible.

DaysForGirls2 Days for Girls Opens Door to Change

While there we were also invited to discuss Female Genital Mutilation. We hoped to have some impact as we had learned that 90% of the population in the area participate in FGM so we came prepared with a unique presentation. We commended their practice to honor their young girls becoming women and asked them to make a new decision and NOT include cutting in the rite because “Kenyan women are powerful naturally.” We introduced purple ribbons representing making a new choice to honor that they are beautiful naturally. Several days later their top six FGM cutters came to us and declared that they were laying down their knives for good, for their daughters. We later had the opportunity to introduce the campaign at an arena with thousands of people present.

The places Days For Girls kits go… the lives they change… and the doors that open when they arrive, never cease to amaze us. Thanks to all who continue to make kits possible.

Friday, May 7, 2010

A Journey of Kits

Instructions for Sewing Kits

Days for Girls Feminine Kit Instructions (Patterns include photos)


LaPriel Stein is on of our SUPER VOLUNTEERS and has sent in quality kits time and again... and she is happy to answer your Days for Girls kit questions. Contact Her Here

How you can help:

* Make tax-deductible donations for kits, fabric, supplies and booklets (Send to: Project Thrive, 810 H Street Road, Lynden, WA 98264 Attn: Days for Girls)
* Sew pads, shields or drawstring bags
* Donate galoon-size zip baggies (part of the kits, used to store soiled pads in)

* Donate wash clothes, underwear, and/or sample sized soap
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You can order wholesale fabric supplies for sewing pads. Cyndi at www.wholesalequiltbatting.com has offered better than wholesale prices to Days for Girls participants for the absorbency layers. Contact her to order. JoAnn's Fabrics now has PUL! The waterproof fabric used as part of making shields. If you take advantage of their discount coupons (sign up for coupons before ordering), it is the best PUL value we have found.

* Days For Girls Washington office is happy to share their snap machine if you are nearby. If not, you are welcome to send completed shields without the snaps and volunteers will apply the snaps with our handy (and fast) machine.

* Notify us of projects that need Days For Girls Kits and we'll work together to get them some!


Questions, comments, suggestions regarding the pattern or suppliers, etc. please do not hesitate to contact us. Thank you... the days you save will make all the difference!

What goes in a kit?



What is in a Kit?
Based on feedback we include:
10 absorbant flannel pads (the new tri-folding design dries faster)
2 shields (the pockets hold shields in place)
1 washcloth1 pair of underwear (due to weight and size considerations, we advise groups to purchase near the site of distribution,
One pair is provided in case no underwear are immediately available)
2 bars of soap (these are only included in kits that are shipping via containers, as the weight is cost prohibitive, compared to local purchase).
2 gallon-sized Ziplock baggies (to carry wet kit elements in)
2 safety pins (to "resize" underwear, and to clasp shields if the snaps should fail)Drawstring Bag to contain it all

This project can also serve as a trade-training industry for young women in third world countries.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Kenyan Orphanage Receives 500 Kits

Days For Girls Photo Gallery

Giving girls back EVERY day of their lives

What if not having feminine supplies kept you in your room for days... no study for days, no going out, no access to hygiene? The answer is unacceptable: they often don't. They sit in their room until it passes. And the truth is that this happens every day for women in third world countries. We're tackling the goal of making sure girls have their own washable, colorful, effective feminine solutions. Here are some photos from the very first delivery. Here's hoping that you can see a glimpse of the joy and relief. Let's pass it on to every nation! Imagine what we could do with your help.



Careful attention while sharing instructions for hygiene and kit use.


Janean Keblish readies to show the girls how their kit's work


New kits in hand


Sue Fleming shares the importance of education


Relief and gratitude


Hugs on the way out the door


Leaving with new Days For Girls Kits


Julie Matua talks with the girls, friend to friend.


Janean passing out kits


Girls reaching for supplies


Celebrating Days For Girls kits!




Nov. 2008 Report - First Delivery of Days For Girls Kits

We're back! Days For Girls Was a Transformative Experience.

It is almost unimaginable, when we learned that girls in Academy of Hidden Talents in the slums of Kenya could be waiting in their room for days during menstruation. But thanks to YOU and many other amazing women and men all over the nation who stepped up to help make a difference so that girls could live every day of their lives more fully, we were all able to make 520 feminine hygiene kits a reality with just 3 1/2 weeks notice!And the impact was far greater than any of us ever dreamed.

We visited the Center the day before the "Days for Girls" program and the kids were excited excited to have solutions to their very real problems. You see, we had sent disposable solutions for cover them in the 3 1/2 weeks gap until we arrived with alternative solutions... And our "emergency solution" ended up clogging the entire pit system! Sigh. So we proved our theory... Paper not only is a disposal and health issue but also literally made a sanitation nightmare develop. The pumping truck that usually empties them couldn't remove the waste. They had dig it out by hand. Sigh again.

The night before we presented our program and solutions we could hardly sleep, we were so excited, and so anxious to be ready and guided to say the right things-- keenly aware of the differences in culture. We arrived with four *huge* duffle bags which together contained more than 500 "Days For Girls" Feminine Hygiene kits, menstruation booklets, a 5 gallon container of bleach, song lyrics, some detergent, and our displays. When we arrived the first group of girls were all in their chairs waiting. Maybe they couldn't sleep either! So much for setting up early.

They cheered our arrival and we set up our supplies. Our focus was to
Expand their Hope (education and assurance that they have intrinsic value), Save their Lives (hygiene and safety), and give them Days of their lives back (the feminine kits). We started by showing them photos of Kenyan Women of Influence as we described the contribution each was making: one won a Nobel Peace Prize, two were scientists, one is second in command for their nation's Ministry of Education, one a Kenyan University president, and one an in-country education program director, and almost all are terrific mothers. And we ended that segment by telling them, "There is another woman I would like to introduce you to who will make all the difference in the world..." and we turned a 8 x 10 mirror around that was just the size of the photos and asked, "Do you see her?" And held it up to the girls, scanning the room. The first group gasped, then cheered.

Then Sue Fleming (Dean of Education of Goddard College) spoke of education and its importance. Then Julie Matua (A Kenyan woman of influence, co/ In-country Kenyan director for Project Education, Inc) spoke of Hygiene, safety and not letting men trade them "trinkets for their virtue... and disease." She explained that they can avoid traps by being resolute, focused and certain. It was all very honest, open and genuine. The girls could not have been more attentive. Then Jane, a graduate from the Center, expounded on this topic explaining how you have to have an attitude of strength and determination to survive and not be abused.

Then I spoke of predators and their behaviors and that the only way to be safe is to never be silent, and to never allow others to be hurt. Then Janean Keblish (an international model whose heart is 100% with the girls) showed them how to use the kits. They were mesmerized. They were thrilled. They LOVED the pads. They loved their panties. They loved their washcloths and soap. They loved the headbands volunteer Betty Ross (no relation to George) and Diana Bedlington had painstakingly cut for them. They loved what those with the Swan Foundation (thank you Terri and so many more!), The Kotex Queen Bees (you know who you are) of the Lynden Baptist Church and the many Relief Society women of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints of the Bellingham area, and so many others all made for them. The girls loved having a solution in their hands. Their eyes sparkled and even the teachers were so glad to have them. They said that they were not sure such an idea would work until they saw them. Then once they saw them they all agreed that they would work well for them. They clamored for them despite our efforts for calm distribution. We hugged each and every girl as they left. That was when we knew... The idea was as sound as any of us had hoped. Maybe more so. They LOVED them. We even found out that in Kenya a girl's period is called her "days!" And we had no idea when we named our campaign.

But there was something deeper. It was obvious that our bringing the solutions showed that we had empathy, not pity. There was a greater connection. Some of the older girls offered to bring kits and do presentations to other orphanages.

And then something we never dreamed of happened....

Girls spoke up. Teachers spoke up, and for the first time a coalition of individuals is standing together for the children. Thanks to YOU.

We came to give back days of their lives... Only to find that a solution
in hand gave them voice.

I am humbly joyful about the gift of being part of the experience and
more certain than ever that this solution is vital. We're not sure we adequately captured the joy... We were so focused on the girls!

Thank you for ALL you did to make this all possible. It was, and is,
miraculous. Will we do it again? Yes! A thousand times yes! We're already gearing up to go again and the sewing machines are back to full speed ahead. We have a lot of sisters out there.

Sincerely,
Celeste
PS: Yes, that's me with the silly grin. Gee whiz the spirit of Love was strong in the room... you can tell by my smile! And yes, isn't it funny that now matter how much you give to others, not matter how hard you work to serve... we always end up being the one that gains joy. Happens every time. Thanks again ladies and gentlemen (yes, there were a few of those and the girls loved hearing that YOU helped)!

Days For Girls Instructions

Days for Girls Feminine Pad Instructions pdf MS Word

How you can help:

* Donate money for kits, fabric, supplies and booklets (Send to: Project Thrive, 810 H Street Road, Lynden, WA 98264 Attn: Days for Girls. Make checks out to ClayForEarth so your donation will be tax deductible.

* Donate fabric: Cotton or cotton blend in one yard (or more) segments (this is the base for 36+ pads, cotton is added on top, see pattern), flannel, diaper flannel and bias tape are needed. Any type is welcome, colorful patterns is preferred to hide stains and add cheer...and we're sure it goes without saying that whatever you can offer is welcome, the girls wouldn't be picky... just appreciative!
* Sew pads, shields &/or drawstring bags
* Donate zip baggies (part of the kits, used to store soiled pads in)
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You can order your own fabric supply for sewing pads and shields.

* Notify us of projects that need Days For Girls Kits and we'll work together to get them some!


Questions, comments, suggestions regarding the pattern or suppliers, etc. please do not hesitate to contact us. Thank you... the days you save will make all the difference!